1. Themed Potluck Nights

Spice up the traditional dinner party by having a themed potluck. Choose a theme like “Tropical Luau,” “90s Nostalgia,” or “Around the World” where everyone brings a dish that matches the theme. Just be prepared for that one friend who forgets and shows up with a bag of chips.

2. DIY Craft Party

Unleash your artistic side with a DIY craft night. From candle-making to painting, there are endless options. Set up a crafting station, gather some supplies, and enjoy a night of creativity while catching up with your besties. Bonus: You all get to take home a handmade souvenir—unless yours turns out like a Pinterest fail, in which case, just call it “abstract.”

3. Pottery Night

Get your hands dirty with a pottery night! Whether you take a class at a local pottery studio or set up an at-home clay sculpting session, this activity is both relaxing and fun. Just try to keep it PG and not reenact that famous scene from Ghost… or do. No judgment.

4. Wellness Retreat at Home

Turn your living room into a mini spa or wellness retreat. Set up yoga mats for a group meditation session, light some candles, and have a selection of face masks and essential oils. Warning: Someone will definitely fall asleep mid-meditation.

5. Book Club with a Twist

Instead of a traditional book club, add a unique spin—pair each book with a themed dinner or activity. Reading a French novel? Have a Parisian-inspired dinner. A mystery book? Turn the night into a fun detective game. Just don’t be the one who watches the movie instead of reading the book!

6. Outdoor Adventure Challenge

For those who love the outdoors, plan an adventure day with activities like a scavenger hunt in a city park, a kayaking trip, or an escape room challenge. It’s a great way to bond, get active, and test who’s best under pressure. (Spoiler: It’s never the one who says, “I’m good at puzzles.”)

7. Cook-Off or Bake-Off Challenge

Bring out your competitive side with a friendly cooking or baking competition. Set a theme, assign judges, and let the best dish win! Just remember: if all else fails, adding extra cheese can save almost anything.

8. Memory Lane Night

Take a walk down memory lane by revisiting old photos, videos, or creating a scrapbook together. You can also watch nostalgic movies from your childhood or recreate your favorite high school hangout. Expect lots of cringing at old hairstyles.

9. Volunteer Together

Giving back is a great way to spend time together. Find a local charity, food bank, or community event where you can volunteer as a group. You’ll feel good about making a difference—and probably walk away with a funny story about one of you accidentally knocking over an entire box of canned goods.

10. Wine or Cocktail Tasting at Home

Create your own tasting experience by picking a selection of wines or crafting fun cocktails. Have each person bring their favorite bottle or ingredient, and rate the drinks together while sharing stories. Just have a backup pizza plan, because cooking tips get real loose after the third cocktail.

11. Weekend Getaway or Staycation

If you can take a break, plan a weekend getaway to a nearby destination. If time is short, consider a staycation by booking an Airbnb in your own city, trying new restaurants, and playing tourist for the day. Or just stay in matching pajamas all weekend and call it a “cozy retreat.”

12. Go Out Dancing

Hit the dance floor with your girlfriends for a fun and energetic night out! Whether it’s a salsa club, a retro 80s night, or a trendy rooftop bar with a DJ, dancing is a great way to let loose, relieve stress, and see who still remembers the choreography to “Single Ladies.”

13. Have a Photoshoot

Dress up, find a scenic location, and have a fun photoshoot with your friends! You can hire a professional photographer or just use your phone cameras to capture stylish, candid, and themed shots. Just be prepared for at least one friend to have very specific posing requests.

14. Paint and Sip Night

Combine art and relaxation with a paint and sip night! Whether you join a guided class at a local studio or set up your own at home, this is a perfect way to express creativity while enjoying your favorite wine or cocktails. No painting skills required—just fun, laughter, and an appreciation for how art looks better after a few sips.

15. Luxury Spa Day

Treat yourselves to a day of pampering at a high-end spa. Enjoy facials, massages, and relaxing steam rooms while catching up and indulging in self-care. At the very least, soak in a hot tub and pretend you’re rich for the day.

16. Fine Dining Experience

Dress up and enjoy an elegant night out at a fine dining restaurant. Try a multi-course tasting menu, a themed dinner, or a rooftop spot with an amazing view. Just don’t be afraid to Google menu items so you don’t accidentally order something with snails.

17. Concert or Live Show

Buy tickets to a concert, comedy show, or musical theater performance. Enjoying live entertainment together is a thrilling way to bond and create unforgettable moments. Bonus points if you all learn the lyrics beforehand for an epic singalong.

18. Shopping Spree and High Tea

Plan a day at an upscale shopping center or boutique district. Follow it up with a fancy afternoon tea at a luxury hotel for a mix of retail therapy and elegance. Nothing bonds friends like trying on ridiculously expensive outfits “just for fun.”

19. Travel Together

Plan a destination trip, whether it’s a weekend beach getaway, a ski resort, or an international adventure. Traveling together allows for deep bonding and unforgettable experiences—assuming no one forgets their passport.

20. Glamping Experience

Upgrade traditional camping to a luxurious glamping trip. Rent a cozy cabin, treehouse, or yurt and enjoy nature with all the comforts of a boutique hotel. S’mores taste even better when you didn’t have to pitch a tent first.

Use Groupon or Deal Sites for Discounts

If you’re looking for fun activities but want to save some money, check out deal websites like Groupon or LivingSocial. You can find discounts on spa treatments, fine dining, paint and sip nights, and even travel packages. Because nothing says girl power like getting a five-star experience at a two-star price.

Spending time with your girlfriends doesn’t have to be routine—get creative and try something new! Whether you opt for a relaxing night in or an adventurous outing, the most important thing is making time to connect and have fun together. And, of course, taking a ridiculous amount of selfies to document it all.